Marked by Mercy | Week Three

Marked by Mercy - Week Three - Mercy Forgives Those at Fault

Opening Question:

Share about a time when you found it difficult to forgive someone. What made it challenging?

Key Takeaways:

1. Forgiveness is a core aspect of showing mercy.

2. We are called to forgive others because a) We are told to by Jesus, b) We have received forgiveness ourselves, c) We are transformed by forgiveness, and d) We are warned about the consequences of unforgiveness

3. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting, immediately restoring trust, or always reconciling.

4. Forgiveness is a process that involves a) acknowledging your pain, b) bringing it to God, c) considering God's forgiveness for you, and d) determining to forgive them.

Discussion Questions:

1. Why do you think forgiveness is so difficult for many people, even Christians?

2. The sermon mentions that we often misunderstand what forgiveness is. How has your understanding of forgiveness changed after hearing this message?

3. Discuss the parable Jesus tells in Matthew 18:23-35. What strikes you most about this story?

4. How does remembering our own forgiveness from God impact our ability to forgive others?

5. What are some potential consequences of holding onto unforgiveness? Have you experienced any of these in your life?

6. Discuss the ABCD process for forgiveness mentioned in the sermon. Which step do you find most challenging and why?

Practical Applications:

1. Take some time this week to reflect on God's forgiveness in your life. Write down specific instances where you've experienced His mercy.

2. Identify someone in your life who you need to forgive. Begin the ABCD process: A - Acknowledge your pain B - Be in prayer about it C - Consider God's forgiveness for you D - Determine to forgive them

3. If appropriate, reach out to someone you've hurt in the past and ask for their forgiveness.

Closing Prayer:

Spend time in prayer, asking God to help each group member grow in their capacity to forgive. Pray for healing for those who have been hurt and for the strength to extend mercy to those who have caused pain.